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  • Let me take you to inner space

    in Ealing Broadway W5

     

    João +44 7449552101

    tantricjourney4men@gmail.com

     

    Hourly Rates from £60 to 150

  • Online and In-person Tantric Coaching

    Providing an empathic, friendly, non-judgemental and safe space where we can explore tantric practices and move towards freedom, empowerment, healing, nurturing, transformation, pleasure and balance

     

    Offering a body based spirituality that is more aligned to your own truth

     

    Supporting you define your outcomes and visions and how to best experience and achieve them, removing any obstacles preventing you to experience true ecstasy and bliss

     

    Helping you find a suitable pace to move out of your comfort zone and explore new ways of relating and being

     

    Using listening skills, practical exercises, reflective techniques and suggesting ethical options to support you in your exploration and intentions

     

    Possible areas for exploration:

     

    • Finding joy in sexuality and life
    • Intimacy with self and others
    • Removing shame, guilt, blocks and conditioning around sexuality
    • Removal of judgements about yourself and others
    • Relaxation, pampering and nurturing when facing day to day issues
    • Nurturing through transition of some major serious life changes
    • Having some “Me” time
    • Experiencing mindful touch
    • Becoming more embodied
    • Tantric tools to treat premature ejaculation or erectile issues
    • Techniques to bring more energy and intimacy into love making and everyday life
    • Exploring fantasy, play and fun within the arena of sexuality, sensuality and spirituality
    • Rituals to meet your needs, wants and aims
    • Holding space and the possibility for clients to explore and open up

     

    Tantric Virtual Connections

    People from varied backgrounds, experiences, ages and places coming together with open and curious minds and hearts and sharing a willingness to journey within, expand our horizons and live in a more authentic way.

     

     

    https://www.meetup.com/LondonTantricClub4men

     

    The experiential elements in these gatherings may include stillness, movement and breathing meditations, verbal expression, dance and self physical touch. The intention is one of aliveness, gentleness, playfulness, respect and inner observation.

    You always have the choice as to whether, and to what degree, you engage in the invitations/exercises.

     

    Some events are donation-based, clothing optional and all require on-camera participation.

     

    I will host it via Google Meet with a limit of 100 participants.

    After registering, you will receive a message containing information about joining the meeting.

     

    Google Meet joining info

    Video call link: https://meet.google.com/cjp-advn-zfw

     

    LIVEstreaming gatherings exploring tantric ways to grow

     

    At present some gatherings are LIVEstreamed and some are in-person following pandemic preventative measures

     

    They required advanced booking and minimum number of participants to go ahead.

    (All times above are GMT or BST London U.K)

    Virtual Connections

    Preparing yourself for an online session:

    • Make sure you have a device that will work well for class. A desk/laptop computer or tablet, ideally with external speakers or wireless earbuds. (If you don’t have external speakers or earbuds, your device’s speakers will work fine, the audio will just be more limited.)
    • Your device should have a microphone and camera. The built-in ones are fine.
    • Please make sure to be familiar with the zoom app since we may not have time to go over that technicalities (especially in group gatherings)
    • We will be using Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/

     

    • Choose and set up a private space for yourself – somewhere you will feel comfortable moving uninterrupted for our time together. Arrange the space to be calming and welcoming for you. That might mean sweeping, adjusting lighting, creating a small installation (maybe a few precious objects, candles, a bowl of water), draping cloths over distracting items, clearing a space as big as possible to move in. Be mindful of possible obstacles, especially rugs and table corners.
    • Depending on the session you can have certain toys, fetish wear or props at hand. Feel free to be creative.
    • To help create a safe and sacred space for our practice, there will be no admissions past 10-minutes after session start time (mainly for group gatherings). Please plan to stay present and participating for the full session.
    • Wear comfortable clothes that you can move and sweat in or be naked.
    • Have a chair you can sit on straight and a yoga mat or towel for lying down.
    • Have your water bottle filled and available.

     

    To truly release into your practice, I encourage letting go of computer & phone screens. Turn off your cell phone and computer notifications and close other apps and windows. To remain in the meeting It’s important for you to see and be seen in community by having your camera on .

     

    Please consider the virtual room as a sacred sharing space.

    Confidentiality, Liability and Trust

    Please play fair and keep any confidentiality by NOT making any screenshots, recordings or by verbally sharing any of the content of personal sharings during any of my offerings online.

     

    I cannot take any responsibility or be held under any form of liability for what happens in my virtual group gatherings. By attending you acknowledge you are attending of your own volition and anything you choose to share or actions your choose to perform (including all suggested and recommended practices) is of your own free choice and you are solely responsible for your own safety and free choice to take part in anything.

    Please also be aware that even though I make these guidelines, they may be broken and you need to know that none of my online spaces are totally safe or secure other than based on men’s goodwill to play fair and respect each other's privacy.

  • Prepare Yourself

    for a Tantric Massage

    Beforehand

    1. Drink plenty of water before your session to avoid slight nausea post session.

     

    2. Eat a light snack 1 hour before your massage to avoid feeling light headed after your massage due to very low blood sugar levels but not so large as to cause discomfort on the massage table.

     

    3. Avoid alcohol and recreational drugs.

     

    4. Where possible, avoid painkillers and muscle relaxers so that you are able to fully feel the massage and give uncompromised feedback.

     

    5. Come as you are: No need to wait for a manicure or wax session. All shapes and sizes are welcome.

     

    6. Ensure good personal hygiene avoiding any sweat and/or unpleasant smells.

     

    7. Cover in a sanitary way any wound or verruca/wart in your hand or feet.

     

    8. Anal douche beforehand, specially if having prostate massage (anal internal stimulation). If in doubt, talk to me:

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    During

    1. Usually light or medium pressure are used. However, please tell me if the pressure applied reaches 7 in your pain threshold from 1 to 10 so that we stay within your “comfort zone”.

     

    2. We will use movement, sound and breath to stimulate your senses.

    You will be invited to pay attention to your breathing and different parts of your body. Engage in these suggestions as much as you want to make the most of your experience

     

    3. Close your eyes and observe the sensations running throughout your body. This is also a practice similar to meditation which will also help slow down the breath, again enhancing the treatment.

     

    4. Breathing enhances results because, when you move the breath, you move energy throughout your system. If you hold your breath, energy stops flowing. The best thing you can do when you are faced with any intense sensation during a treatment is to breathe through it. It helps if you can imagine that with every exhalation you are releasing any stagnant or unhealthy energy out of your body.

     

     

    5. At any point, if any techniques or exercises are too intense, tell me so that they can be adapted to your present state.

    Afterwards

    1. Drink plenty of water since it is a natural immune system booster particularly during flu season.

     

    2. Avoid caffeine, alcohol and processed sugars for some hours afterwards since these substances send a stress signal through your body.

     

    3. If possible, take a little nap, sleep or get into the resting yoga pose savasana so that everything settles into its new pattern.

  • Workshops

    4-8 like-minded men gathering to connect, explore and expand using tantric tools to explore somatically pleasure, assertiveness, consent, boundaries and sexual energy in a sacred space.

     

    We start doing exercises on ourselves individually before moving to pair and group exercises where you will have the option to share touch to the extent that is helpful for you at that time.

     

    Although sexual energy may arise during the exercises there are no sexual union during the workshop.

     

    This event is for THREE 18+ men who are reasonably fit and flexible. You should be able to sit/kneel comfortably on the floor with both hands free for massaging.

     

    NOTE: This event is not for you if

    • You’re uncomfortable being naked among other men

    • You’re uncomfortable being touched by other men

    • You’re looking for an orgy

     

    Places must be booked and paid for in advance (an RSVP here does not secure your place... a payment does).

     

    Please be prompt and punctual as latecomers will not be able to join us.

     

    We accept there are risks when meeting other people and agree to take a lateral flow test within 24 hours before attending the workshop to minimise potential risks.

     

    Different layers approaching bodywork, meditation, eroticism and spirituality

    https://www.meetup.com/LondonTantricClub4men

     

    NEXT WORKSHOPS:

     

    4 Sundays focusing on exploring sexual energy and the chakras:

    These workshops are more experiencial and writing material will be available to participants to continue deepening their exploration

     

     

     

    Tantric Chakra Massage: Crowning

    10th November 2024 – 11 am to 2:30 pm

    Somatically exploring connection and awareness noticing emotions, qualities and blockages to specific areas of our lives related to 7th chakra mainly, yet considering all seven of them.

     

    Tantric Massage: Body2Body - 8th December 2024 – 11 am to 2:30 pm

    Including the whole of our bodies in a flowing and mindful way when massaging one another, meeting one another between varied qualities of touch and connection.

     

    Location: Ealing, West London

    Investment: £100

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    Online Tantric Meditation

    New dates to be confirmed

    An opportunity to observe with an open and curious heart and mind what arises as we explore our bodies using tantric ways to connect and expand our awareness.
    Tantra is a spiritual path that celebrates our body as our temple, welcoming its expressions of aliveness, particularly on sexuality.

    I will host it via Google Meet https://meet.google.com/

     

    Please REGISTER at least 24 hours IN ADVANCE so that we can message each other for further exchanges and login details. Last minute requests may not be able to join us.

    Places must be reserved in advance by sending a direct contribution. (an RSVP does not secure your place... only a financial contribution does).

    Have at hand some massage oil, towel and comfortable surface to lie down.

    Tantric Connections

    Clothed Introduction

    Any seeker regardless of their experience with meditation and tantra is welcome.

     

    Exercises involve moments of stillness, guided meditation, breathing techniques, body movement, pelvic exercises, toning techniques (making sounds), light touching (yourself and others) and so forth.

     

    Couples are welcome to join us, they can do the pair exercises together if they wish. Also you can come on your own and pair up with other participants. You are encouraged to have an open heart and mind and pair up with as many different men as you can since each person has a different energy and contribution to your own personal journey.

     

    We will explore the concepts of personal boundaries and consent through gentle touch in a friendly and safe environment.

     

    P.S. Refunds are only offered if the event is cancelled

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    Sensual Massage

    Erogenous Zones Care

    Learn or develop your massage skills in a friendly and informal environment.

    Feel and share caring touch learning and practicing this sensual style of massage when you will be taking in turns to massage your partner. Varied strokes in highly sensitive areas of the body are used to create an erotic response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm without genital touch. This workshop is very hands-on and ideal for those who are a bit shy or new to bodywork.

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    Lingam Healing

    Penis Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your masculine energy, your personal power and goals.

    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage personal growth through a pleasurable existence and spread your sexual energy all over the body.

     

    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.

     

    Sexual union is not part of this event.

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    Rosetta Healing

    External Anal Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your feminine energy. You will be gently guided to let it go, allowing yourself to be and feel what you need to feel at this moment in your life.

     

    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage a deeper connection with your own body, emotions, feelings and sensations.

     

    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.

     

    Sexual union is not part of this event.

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    Sacred Spot Healing

    Internal Prostate Massage

    This workshop is aimed at more experienced seekers and continues exploring emotions, feelings and life experiences stored in our pelvic area.

     

    You are invited to develop a deeper relationship with your feminine energy, your vulnerability, your receptivity, observe the sensations that emerge, and just be at the present moment.

     

    This is an opportunity to release any strong or repressed emotions through the way that works best for you.

     

    Nudity and VERY personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.

     

    Sexual union is not part of this event.

  • Welcome to our Integration Workshop for Men

     

    A supportive, non-judgemental and considerate space for men who relate with men

    (emotionally, physically, sexually: gay, bi, curious)

     

    up to six participants will be supported by two therapists

    to share and process their experiences with TANTRA and other SOMATIC PRACTICES

     

    A place to unpack the insights that have emerged from your tantric or somatic journey and to explore how those insights might be woven into your daily life in a meaninful and sustainable way.

     

    The focus is on integration—taking the material and experiences you have already gathered and grounding them into your lived reality.

     

    While the sessions are primarily discussion-based, we may introduce group exercises, such as visualisation and meditation, to help deepen the integration process when needed. However; there will be no bodywork involved; instead, the emphasis is on exploring how the material you bring can take root in your everyday life.

     

    FORMAT: 2 Sessions per month over 3 months

    each session is 2 1/2 hours long in person, online or mixed

     

    INVESTMENT: £300

    LOCATION: Ealing, West London or online

     

    APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN

    contact us at tantricjourney4men@gmail.com

    +44744955210

     

     

  • Tantric Practitioner

    João +44 7449552101 tantricjourney4men@gmail.com

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    João

    My journey in complementary therapy started 17 years ago and evolved along the years to the realm of Tantra. My background in teaching, talking and complementary therapies allows me to blend different techniques and tailor your session.I love tantra, yoga, dancing, nature, travelling and other practices that promote wellbeing, freedom, authenticity and unconditional love towards oneself and others.

    Tantra has been a big passion in my life since it is very diverse and allows the connection beween sexual energy and spirituality in a path of expansion towards more awareness, freedom, authenticity and unconditional love towards oneself and others.

    I am based in London where I offer private appointments and workshops. Moreover, I facilitate workshops and retreats in other parts of the country as well as abroad.

    +44 7449552101

    tantricjourney4men@gmail.com

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    Covid-19 - You agree to when purchasing to attend an event with me:

    If I am unable to deliver the event due to any Covid restrictions (laws about social distancing, travel or other restrictions) that I will move the event to a time when it can take place.

    If you book an event and it cannot take place due to any Covid-19 restrictions, that you agree I can transfer you to the newly arranged date, or that you can transfer to any other programme (of the same value, or pay the difference).

    I cannot offer refunds and you book an event not seeking any refund if we need to postpone the event due to Covid-19.

    My promise is that you will get the course or event you have paid for and you will not lose anything.

    Covid Protocol: provision of a lateral flow test taken within 24 hours prior to your arrival at the venue

    Please email me tantricjourney4men@gmail.com if you wish to seek any clarity around this.

    Cancellation Policy

    If you need to cancel your booked place on any "residential” or “non-residential” course or event, no refund for food, accommodation, tuition or instalments can be given. However, you are able to sell, transfer or gift your ticket to another person (pending mutual assessment of their suitability). You would be responsible for finding this person. We would require notification of this at least four weeks prior to the event. Please email me at tantricjourney4men@gmail.com to discuss circumstances.

    Any credit or credit note with me expires after 6th month (for non-residential) and 1 year (for residential) from when the initial product or service was purchased. It is your responsibility to make sure you use the credit note within the expiry period.

    Upon any cancellation, I reserve the right to try to re-sell accommodation and tickets. If I need to cancel a course or event for any reason within my reasonable control, I will give you a full refund of the amount you paid when you booked the course. If for any reason I need to cancel a course it is my aim to give you at least four weeks’ notice. Where I can I will offer you alternative dates / courses. A minimum of four participants are needed to run the retreat.

    If the delivery of a course or event that you have booked is delayed, hindered, made inadvisable, made commercially impracticable, made illegal, or made impossible to perform, by the occurrence of an unforeseeable act or event which is beyond the reasonable control of ourselves (the organisers, tutors or venue) ("Force Majeure Events"), we shall not be held liable for any failure or delay in the performance of our obligations to deliver the event. In such a case, I cannot offer you any refunds. However, at my discretion and only if commercially practicable, I might offer you to transfer to a future event. Acts or events constituting Force Majeure Events shall include (but not be limited to) Acts of God, major natural disasters, wars, major political unrest, disease and epidemics, government intervention, directives or policies, and other circumstances beyond our control.

     

    By booking anything with Tantric Journey 4 men (massages and events such as workshops or retreats) or registering for my newsletter, blog, or social media channels you are agreeing to my ethics and my terms and conditions.From time to time I may update these terms and conditions so please feel free to check back to keep yourself updated

    Using My Services

    It is your responsibility to inform me via my booking forms, emails, calls or text messages of any health conditions that you have that might affect others, or that might affect your ability to take part in the course, event or massage session. This information is confidential between me and yourself. Please see our Ethics section regarding safe practice.

    Money exchanged for any courses, events or services (including massage) is simply for time and companionship. Anything else that takes place is a matter of personal choice between two or more consenting adults of legal age. Anything implied or inferred within these pages is not to be taken as inducement for payment for anything other than time and companionship.


    You are responsible for your own mental, physical, and emotional well being and safety in your choice to participate in any part of a course, event or massage. Any activity you choose to participate in is deemed as being between consenting adults. No liability can be accepted by me for your well being and safety whether that be in a course, event or massage.

    You are responsible for your own safe practice throughout my courses, events or massage. This means that in agreeing to attend a course, event or massage session you are agreeing to safe practice whether that be of a sexual nature, mental, physical or emotional. i.e. not exposing yourself to health risks and not exposing yourself to situations where you feel you may be damaged or hurt on an emotional, physical and mental level. I reserve the right to withdraw any services to you at any time if I am concerned about your well being and welfare. This could mean that you are asked to leave a course or event, or a massage session cannot occur or continue because of those concerns. If this happens no refund will be offered.

    If your attending a Course (both residential and non-residential) and you choose not to continue with the set programme, it is likely that you will be asked to leave the venue. Witnessing (watching) and being in the group space even though you may choose not to participate in the specific exercise is counted as being part of the programme. It is likely to have a detrimental impact to the group process if you are making a choice not to continue with the programme but wish to stay on the premises.

    I reserve the right to withdraw any services of a course, event or massage session at any time without the need to provide any explanation. However my aim is to be fair to you at all times in our dealings. If for example a massage session was withdrawn we would refund you the full amount of that massage session.

    Once you have made a massage appointment through any means (calls, text messages or emails for example) no liability or claim can be accepted by me for the delivery or quality of that experience. Complaints should be addressed to me for resolution. I cannot accept any liability or claim for the service that you received.

    My Ethics
    I am committed to the highest ethical practice. In signing up to the Terms and Conditions, you are also agreeing to those as laid out in this section.

    Liability & Responsibility

    I cannot offer any liability to you for any part of the services I offer. It is your duty to ensure your own personal safety. No liability or responsibility can be taken by me for you. You will need to ensure you are mentally, physically and emotionally able to engage in the treatments, events, workshops or retreats. If you have any concerns you are responsible for your own duty of care to yourself and as such should seek appropriate advice before undertaking any course.

    Your Personal Behaviour

    We will not tolerate any form of aggressive or inappropriate behaviour towards us, venue staff or other group members. Any such behaviour will be addressed and if not rectified immediately could result in you being asked to leave a course, event or a massage session. Where you have been requested to leave a course no refund will be given. 

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