• Let me take you to inner space

    in Ealing Broadway W5


    João +44 7449552101



    Hourly Rates from £60 to 150

  • Online Tantra Coaching

    Explore tantric ways to connect deeper with yourself expanding your awareness and consciousness

    Tantric Virtual Connections

    People from varied backgrounds, experiences, ages and places coming together with open and curious minds and hearts and sharing a willingness to journey within, expand our horizons and live in a more authentic way.


    The experiential elements in these gatherings may include stillness, movement and breathing meditations, verbal expression, dance and self physical touch. The intention is one of aliveness, gentleness, playfulness, respect and inner observation.

    You always have the choice as to whether, and to what degree, you engage in the invitations/exercises.


    Some events are donation-based, clothing optional and all require on-camera participation.


    I will host it via Zoom. Please download and test Zoom beforehand: https://zoom.us

    After registering, you will receive a message containing information about joining the meeting.


    LIVEstreaming gatherings exploring tantric ways to grow


    At present our gatherings are LIVEstreamed 


    On Wednesday mornings: Tantric Meditation at 10 am (donation based)


    On Thursday evenings: Embracing Pleasure 9 pm  £10-30


    They required advanced booking and minimum number of participants to go ahead. 

    (All times above are BST London U.K)

    Virtual Connections

    Preparing yourself for an online session:

    • Make sure you have a device that will work well for class. A desk/laptop computer or tablet, ideally with external speakers or wireless earbuds. (If you don’t have external speakers or earbuds, your device’s speakers will work fine, the audio will just be more limited.) 
    • Your device should have a microphone and camera. The built-in ones are fine.
    •  Please make sure to be familiar with the zoom app since we may not have time to go over that technicalities (especially in group gatherings)
    • Download Zoom onto your device. Instructions: https://zoom.us/download 


    • Choose and set up a private space for yourself – somewhere you will feel comfortable moving uninterrupted for our time together. Arrange the space to be calming and welcoming for you. That might mean sweeping, adjusting lighting, creating a small installation (maybe a few precious objects, candles, a bowl of water), draping cloths over distracting items, clearing a space as big as possible to move in. Be mindful of possible obstacles, especially rugs and table corners.
    • Depending on the session you can have certain toys, fetish wear or props at hand. Feel free to be creative.
    • To help create a safe and sacred space for our practice, there will be no admissions past 10-minutes after session start time (mainly for group gatherings). Please plan to stay present and participating for the full session. 
    • Wear comfortable clothes that you can move and sweat in or be naked.
    • Have a chair you can sit on straight and a yoga mat or towel for lying down.
    • Have your water bottle filled and available.


    To truly release into your practice, I encourage letting go of computer & phone screens. Turn off your cell phone and computer notifications and close other apps and windows. It’s important for you to see and be seen in community and join the optional Zoom room.


    Please consider the Zoom room as a sacred sharing space.

    Confidentiality, Liability and Trust

    Please play fair and keep any confidentiality by NOT making any screenshots, recordings or by verbally sharing any of the content of personal sharings during any of my offerings online.


    I cannot take any responsibility or be held under any form of liability for what happens in my virtual group gatherings. By attending you acknowledge you are attending of your own volition and anything you choose to share or actions your choose to perform (including all suggested and recommended practices) is of your own free choice and you are solely responsible for your own safety and free choice to take part in anything.

    Please also be aware that even though I make these guidelines, they may be broken and you need to know that none of my online spaces are totally safe or secure other than based on men’s goodwill to play fair and respect each other's privacy.

  • Prepare Yourself

    for a Tantric Massage


    1. Drink plenty of water before your session to avoid slight nausea post session.


    2. Eat a light snack 1 hour before your massage to avoid feeling light headed after your massage due to very low blood sugar levels but not so large as to cause discomfort on the massage table.


    3. Avoid alcohol and recreational drugs.


    4. Where possible, avoid painkillers and muscle relaxers so that you are able to fully feel the massage and give uncompromised feedback.


    5. Come as you are: No need to wait for a manicure or wax session. All shapes and sizes are welcome.


    6. Ensure good personal hygiene avoiding any sweat and/or unpleasant smells.


    7. Cover in a sanitary way any wound or verruca/wart in your hand or feet.


    8. Anal douche beforehand, specially if having prostate massage (anal internal stimulation). If in doubt, talk to me:




    1. Usually light or medium pressure are used. However, please tell me if the pressure applied reaches 7 in your pain threshold from 1 to 10 so that we stay within your “comfort zone”.


    2. We will use movement, sound and breath to stimulate your senses.

    You will be invited to pay attention to your breathing and different parts of your body. Engage in these suggestions as much as you want to make the most of your experience


    3. Close your eyes and observe the sensations running throughout your body. This is also a practice similar to meditation which will also help slow down the breath, again enhancing the treatment.


    4. Breathing enhances results because, when you move the breath, you move energy throughout your system. If you hold your breath, energy stops flowing. The best thing you can do when you are faced with any intense sensation during a treatment is to breathe through it. It helps if you can imagine that with every exhalation you are releasing any stagnant or unhealthy energy out of your body.



    5. At any point, if any techniques or exercises are too intense, tell me so that they can be adapted to your present state.


    1. Drink plenty of water since it is a natural immune system booster particularly during flu season.


    2. Avoid caffeine, alcohol and processed sugars for some hours afterwards since these substances send a stress signal through your body.


    3. If possible, take a little nap, sleep or get into the resting yoga pose savasana so that everything settles into its new pattern.

  • Workshops

    Different layers approaching bodywork, meditation, eroticism and spirituality


    Tantric Connections & SPA

    Conscious Touch, Mindful Interactions, Tantric Massage, Saunas & Jacuzzi

    All face to face workshops are postponed until further notice due to the pandemic.


    The concepts of personal boundaries, consent and mindful touch will be explored in a friendly and safe environment.


    These gatherings for men are open to any seeker regardless of their experience with meditation and tantra. Also, it is a good introduction for those who wish to attend other tantric events of mine.


    Couples are welcome to join us, they can do the pair exercises together if they wish. Also you can come on your own and pair up with other participants. You are encouraged to have an open heart and mind and pair up with as many different men as you can since each person has a different energy and contribution to your own personal journey.

    Tantric Connections

    Clothed Introduction

    Any seeker regardless of their experience with meditation and tantra is welcome.


    Exercises involve moments of stillness, guided meditation, breathing techniques, body movement, pelvic exercises, toning techniques (making sounds), light touching (yourself and others) and so forth.


    Couples are welcome to join us, they can do the pair exercises together if they wish. Also you can come on your own and pair up with other participants. You are encouraged to have an open heart and mind and pair up with as many different men as you can since each person has a different energy and contribution to your own personal journey.


    We will explore the concepts of personal boundaries and consent through gentle touch in a friendly and safe environment.


    P.S. Refunds are only offered if the event is cancelled

    Sensual Massage

    Erogenous Zones Care

    Learn or develop your massage skills in a friendly and informal environment.

    Feel and share caring touch learning and practicing this sensual style of massage when you will be taking in turns to massage your partner. Varied strokes in highly sensitive areas of the body are used to create an erotic response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm without genital touch. This workshop is very hands-on and ideal for those who are a bit shy or new to bodywork.

    Lingam Healing

    Penis Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your masculine energy, your personal power and goals.

    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage personal growth through a pleasurable existence and spread your sexual energy all over the body.


    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

    Rosetta Healing

    External Anal Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your feminine energy. You will be gently guided to let it go, allowing yourself to be and feel what you need to feel at this moment in your life.


    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage a deeper connection with your own body, emotions, feelings and sensations.


    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

    Sacred Spot Healing

    Internal Prostate Massage

    This workshop is aimed at more experienced seekers and continues exploring emotions, feelings and life experiences stored in our pelvic area.


    You are invited to develop a deeper relationship with your feminine energy, your vulnerability, your receptivity, observe the sensations that emerge, and just be at the present moment.


    This is an opportunity to release any strong or repressed emotions through the way that works best for you.


    Nudity and VERY personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

  • Practitioner

    João +44 7449552101 tantricjourney4men@gmail.com



    His background in teaching along with his training in many styles of therapies allow him to blend different techniques and tailor sessions.

    He loves tantra, yoga, dancing, nature, travelling and other practices that promote wellbeing, freedom, authenticity and unconditional love towards oneself and others.

    João is based in London where he offers private appointments. Moreover, he facilitates workshops and retreats in different countries.


    My journey in complementary therapy started 15 years ago and evolved along the years to the realm of Tantra.


    My background in teaching along with my training in different therapies allow me to blend different techniques and tailor your session.


    I love tantra, yoga, dancing, nature, travelling and other practices that promote wellbeing, freedom, authenticity and unconditional love towards oneself and others.


    I am based in London where I offer private appointments and workshops. Moreover, I facilitate workshops and retreats in other parts of the country as well as abroad.

    +44 7449552101



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From time to time I may update these terms and conditions so please feel free to check back to keep yourself updated.

Using My Services

It is your responsibility to inform me via my booking forms, emails,  calls or text messages of any health conditions that you have that might affect others, or that might affect your ability to take part in the course, event or massage session. This information is confidential between me and yourself. Please see our Ethics section regarding safe practice.

Money exchanged for any courses, events or services (including massage) is simply for time and companionship. Anything else that takes place is a matter of personal choice between two or more consenting adults of legal age. Anything implied or inferred within these pages is not to be taken as inducement for payment for anything other than time and companionship.
You are responsible for your own mental, physical, and emotional well being and safety in your choice to participate in any part of a course, event or massage. Any activity you choose to participate in is deemed as being between consenting adults. No liability can be accepted by me for your well being and safety whether that be in a course, event or massage.

You are responsible for your own safe practice throughout my courses, events or massage. This means that in agreeing to attend a course, event or massage session you are agreeing to safe practice whether that be of a sexual nature, mental, physical or emotional. i.e. not exposing yourself to health risks and not exposing yourself to situations where you feel you may be damaged or hurt on an emotional, physical and mental level. I reserve the right to withdraw any services to you at any time if I am concerned about your well being and welfare. This could mean that you are asked to leave a course or event, or a massage session cannot occur or continue because of those concerns. If this happens no refund will be offered.

If your attending a Course (both residential and non-residential) and you choose not to continue with the set programme, it is likely that you will be asked to leave the venue. Witnessing (watching) and being in the group space even though you may choose not to participate in the specific exercise is counted as being part of the programme. It is likely to have a detrimental impact to the group process if you are making a choice not to continue with the programme but wish to stay on the premises.   

I reserve the right to withdraw any services of a course, event or massage session at any time without the need to provide any explanation. However my aim is to be fair to you at all times in our dealings. If for example a massage session was withdrawn we would refund you the full amount of that massage session.

Once you have made a massage appointment through any means (calls, text messages or emails for example) no liability or claim can be accepted by me for the delivery or quality of that experience. Complaints should be addressed to me for resolution. I cannot accept any liability or claim for the service that you received.

My  Ethics
I am committed to the highest ethical practice. In signing up to the Terms and Conditions, you are also agreeing to those as laid out in this section.

Liability & Responsibility

I cannot offer any liability to you for any part of the services I offer. It is your duty to ensure your own personal safety. No liability or responsibility can be taken by me for you. You will need to ensure you are mentally, physically and emotionally able to engage in the treatments, events, workshops or retreats. If you have any concerns you are responsible for your own duty of care to yourself and as such should seek appropriate advice before undertaking any course.

Your Personal Behaviour

We will not tolerate any form of aggressive or inappropriate behaviour towards us, venue staff or other group members. Any such behaviour will be addressed and if not rectified immediately could result in you being asked to leave a course, event or a massage session. Where you have been requested to leave a course no refund will be given.
This privacy policy / privacy notice sets out how I, J de Oliveira, use and protect any personal information that you give me through my private treatments, events, programmes and products.

Your information will be used for the sole purpose of your request or order and in accordance with this privacy statement and the guidelines set by the Information Commissioner’s Office, which is our lead data protection supervisory authority (link here: https://ico.org.uk).
I may change this policy from time to time by updating this page. You should therefore check this page from time to time to ensure that you are happy with any changes.
As a private Therapist, I’m considered the data processor and controller in my practice. As the data controller, I process some of your personal data. During the assessment process information such as next of kin, family members and medication are gathered and held. No one but me can access this information.

Data Processing means  obtaining, recording or holding information. The definition is very wide, and most of what I do involves a degree of processing. I  process the personal data I have collected as controller. I maintain records of personal data and processing activities and hold responsibility should there be a breach.

What I collect
I may collect the following information:
* Full name
* Contact information including email address, postal address, and telephone / mobile numbers
* Date of birth
* Financial information in relation event bookings and other products
* Personal and health information in relation to previous experiences with spiritual modalities, and related to health information essential for your safety during your treatment, my events and workshops (such as injuries and food intolerances).
* Market research information and testimonials to improve my services.
What I do with the information we gather
I use this information to provide your treatments, deliver my events, workshops and retreats, to understand your needs and limitations, to provide you with the best service I can and to assist you in order to improve the event you have booked onto
* to send occasional surveys and other feedback opportunities to help me to improve my  treatments, events and workshops
* to send you marketing messages for my own treatments and events

I may also use the information you give me, in an anonymised way, to review, improve, and promote the effectiveness of my performance to your physical and mental health  as well as making your personal progress in the Tantra-related modalities that I offer, and to monitor the effectiveness of my treatments, events and workshops.  Specifically, I will use the information you give me:
* for secure internal record keeping
* to send you information on the treatments, events and workshops.
Note keeping.I do not keep process notes. I kexep minimal content notes which I hold for seven years. After this time frame, they're disposed of securely. You have a right to see the information I hold about you should you wish to. You have a right to change any information which you consider to be incorrect. You can also ask me to delete all/any of the information that I hold. There are however some details I need to keep due to legal and professional obligations.

I will NEVER do the following with your information 
I take your privacy very seriously and will protect client confidentiality at all times. I will never divulge, or sell on, your personal information to third parties unless I am required by law to do so.
Retention periods and disposal of records
I will keep your information in line with guidance on records retention periods, and for no longer than it is needed. I will dispose of paper records or delete any electronic personal information in a secure way.
Financial information: Any financial information will only be used for immediate processing of your payments and erased immediately afterwards.
I do not store your payment details. I am committed to ensuring that your information is secure and anonymised where appropriate. 

Law Enforcement: If I receive a lawful court order to release account or other personal information then I will comply with the law. I will also release information when necessary to protect the life, safety or property of others.

It is important for you to protect against unauthorized access to your password and to your computer. Be sure to sign off when finished using a shared computer.

This is a primary concern and is separate to other terms and conditions. As my client, you can withdraw consent at any time. I hope to offer you choice and control. I will never use any of your data for writing, publishing, research or training purposes without your consent.

When you book with me, I will always ask for your consent to use the data you provide as part of my treatments, events, workshops and programmes. You have the right to access your data as detailed in the next paragraph at any time. You have the right to update or withdraw your consent at any time by contacting me at tantricjourney4men@gmail.co.uk.
Your right to control, know, and erase your personal data held with me
You have the right to control your personal data held by me in the following ways, at any time:
1. Your right to know what personal data I hold about you: You can ask me what information I hold about you, and I will respond to your request as soon as possible, but within one month maximum.
2. Your right to rectification if you believe any of your personal data are incorrect.
3. Your right to erasure of your personal data: You can ask me to delete all personal data I have stored about you, and I will erase all these within one month maximum. This excludes information that I need to keep for legal reasons (such as tax).
4. Your right to obtain a digital copy of your personal data: Upon request, I will send you a digital copy of all personal data I hold about you, within one month maximum.

Please contact me on if you would like to exercise any of these rights.
Your right to lodge a complaint
Please contact me in the first instance if you are not satisfied with how I manage your personal information: tantricjourney4men@gmail.co.uk. If you follow this procedure and are still not happy, you have the right to contact the Information Commissioner’s Office: https://ico.org.uk
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For all enquiries in relation to Tantric Journeys and the content of this policy, please contact tantricjourney4men@gmail.co.uk