• Let me take you to inner space

    in Ealing Broadway W5


    João +44 7449552101



    Hourly Rates from £60 to 150

  • Prepare Yourself

    for a Tantric Massage


    1. Drink plenty of water before your session to avoid slight nausea post session.


    2. Eat a light snack 1 hour before your massage to avoid feeling light headed after your massage due to very low blood sugar levels but not so large as to cause discomfort on the massage table.


    3. Avoid alcohol and recreational drugs.


    4. Where possible, avoid painkillers and muscle relaxers so that you are able to fully feel the massage and give uncompromised feedback.


    5. Come as you are: No need to wait for a manicure or wax session. All shapes and sizes are welcome.


    6. Ensure good personal hygiene avoiding any sweat and/or unpleasant smells.


    7. Cover in a sanitary way any wound or verruca/wart in your hand or feet.


    8. Anal douche beforehand, specially if having prostate massage (anal internal stimulation). If in doubt, talk to me:




    1. Usually light or medium pressure are used. However, please tell me if the pressure applied reaches 7 in your pain threshold from 1 to 10 so that we stay within your “comfort zone”.


    2. We will use movement, sound and breath to stimulate your senses.

    You will be invited to pay attention to your breathing and different parts of your body. Engage in these suggestions as much as you want to make the most of your experience


    3. Close your eyes and observe the sensations running throughout your body. This is also a practice similar to meditation which will also help slow down the breath, again enhancing the treatment.


    4. Breathing enhances results because, when you move the breath, you move energy throughout your system. If you hold your breath, energy stops flowing. The best thing you can do when you are faced with any intense sensation during a treatment is to breathe through it. It helps if you can imagine that with every exhalation you are releasing any stagnant or unhealthy energy out of your body.



    5. At any point, if any techniques or exercises are too intense, tell me so that they can be adapted to your present state.


    1. Drink plenty of water since it is a natural immune system booster particularly during flu season.


    2. Avoid caffeine, alcohol and processed sugars for some hours afterwards since these substances send a stress signal through your body.


    3. If possible, take a little nap, sleep or get into the resting yoga pose savasana so that everything settles into its new pattern.

  • Workshops

    Different layers approaching bodywork, meditation, eroticism and spirituality


    Tantric Connections & SPA

    Conscious Touch, Mindful Interactions, Tantric Massage, Saunas & Jacuzzi

    21st March Awakening the Dragon: Lingam

    18th April Rosetta Canal

    16th May Body2Body

    4th July Coming together: Integration


    £60 for 1 workshop

    £320 if paid for the 6 workshops


    Location: Gay Spa near Soho, Central London


    Please bring a yoga mat, a bath towel, flip-flops, snacks to share and a bottle of water. Also make sure to arrive around 10:30 am so that you have enough time to undress and leave your belongings in the locker room before coming to the workshop space and making yourself comfortable.


    I advertise in different platforms so other participants may sign up for this event and not be shown on this page.




    It will not be possible to admit late comers or offer refunds.


    21st March

    Awakening the Dragon: Lingam


    Genital Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your Will, your personal power and goals.

    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage personal growth through a pleasurable existence and spread your sexual energy all over the body.



    18th April: Rosetta Canal


    External Anal Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your feminine energy. You will be gently guided to let it go, allowing yourself to be and feel what you need to feel at this moment in your life.


    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage a deeper connection with your own body, emotions, feelings and sensations.



    16th May: Body2Body


    We honour and serve our partner as we use our hands and full body as extensions of our hearts sliding over their bodies.


    Learn aspects of a tantric massage and give /receive a 4-8 hand massage


    Cuddle up heartfully and consciously with consent


    Learn deep connection tools to relate to one another authentically



    4th July: Coming Together


    Connect with yourself and others as you expand your consciousness using sexual life energy


    You will have the opportunity to:


    integrate everything we have practice in previous gatherings


    balance your inner masculine and feminine energies aiding re-connection with your inner lover


    work with trust, communication, authenticity, personal boundaries and choice, acceptance and freedom



    These workshops involve nudity and personal intimate touch (within your own boundaries) so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.


    The concepts of personal boundaries, consent and mindful touch will be explored in a friendly and safe environment.


    Moreover you will be able to enjoy the GAY SPA facilities before and after the event (showers, steam rooms with aromatherapy fragrances, Tepidarium - Tiled hot room, an infra-red sauna as well as a jacuzzi and play areas).


    This gathering for men is open to any seeker regardless of their experience with meditation and tantra. Also, it is a good introduction for those who wish to attend other tantric events of mine.


    Couples are welcome to join us, they can do the pair exercises together if they wish. Also you can come on your own and pair up with other participants. You are encouraged to have an open heart and mind and pair up with as many different men as you can since each person has a different energy and contribution to your own personal journey.

    Tantric Connections

    Clothed Introduction

    Any seeker regardless of their experience with meditation and tantra is welcome.


    Exercises involve moments of stillness, guided meditation, breathing techniques, body movement, pelvic exercises, toning techniques (making sounds), light touching (yourself and others) and so forth.


    Couples are welcome to join us, they can do the pair exercises together if they wish. Also you can come on your own and pair up with other participants. You are encouraged to have an open heart and mind and pair up with as many different men as you can since each person has a different energy and contribution to your own personal journey.


    We will explore the concepts of personal boundaries and consent through gentle touch in a friendly and safe environment.


    P.S. Refunds are only offered if the event is cancelled

    Sensual Massage

    Erogenous Zones Care

    Learn or develop your massage skills in a friendly and informal environment.

    Feel and share caring touch learning and practicing this sensual style of massage when you will be taking in turns to massage your partner. Varied strokes in highly sensitive areas of the body are used to create an erotic response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm without genital touch. This workshop is very hands-on and ideal for those who are a bit shy or new to bodywork.

    Lingam Healing

    Penis Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your masculine energy, your personal power and goals.

    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage personal growth through a pleasurable existence and spread your sexual energy all over the body.


    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

    Rosetta Healing

    External Anal Massage

    In this workshop the focus is on your feminine energy. You will be gently guided to let it go, allowing yourself to be and feel what you need to feel at this moment in your life.


    This approach blends energy techniques, breath, movement and sound to encourage a deeper connection with your own body, emotions, feelings and sensations.


    Nudity and personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

    Sacred Spot Healing

    Internal Prostate Massage

    This workshop is aimed at more experienced seekers and continues exploring emotions, feelings and life experiences stored in our pelvic area.


    You are invited to develop a deeper relationship with your feminine energy, your vulnerability, your receptivity, observe the sensations that emerge, and just be at the present moment.


    This is an opportunity to release any strong or repressed emotions through the way that works best for you.


    Nudity and VERY personal intimate touch are included so it is essential that those wishing to join be ready to open up and approach this subject with maturity and an open mind.


    Sexual union is not part of this event.

  • Practitioner

    João +44 7449552101 tantricjourney4men@gmail.com


    I’m a friendly practitioner who enjoys nature, dancing and other activities which keep me fit and healthy. Come and share with me your time, body and mind through meditation, caring and sensual touch in a friendly, safe and respectful environment.


    My journey in complementary therapy started more than 10 years ago and evolved along the years expanding to the realm of Tantra.


    I am glad to be able to blend and tailor different techniques to my clients' needs taking them into a journey of exploration within themselves.


    +44 7449552101



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  • Deeper, Closer, Higher

    Tantra & Yoga Retreat for Men 20th -26th June 2020

    A retreat is an opportunity to withdraw from the busy and stressful world that most of us inhabit, most of the time.

    It is also an opportunity to address some of the deeper issues in our lives, to look at ourselves afresh and gain a new perspective on what our lives are about.

    The beautiful and tranquil surroundings of our venue together with

    nature, healthy food, a clothing optional environment, wild swimming, woodland walks, communal living, tantra and yoga practices

    help provide a context for this process of deepening awareness to happen,

    sharing time, ideas and inspiration with like-minded people.

    Tantra is a rich map of teachings and practices that guide us home to the truth of who we are; beings of love and light. Tantra allows us to recognise, remember and rise to meet our full potential. It teaches us how to open our hearts, to welcome and honour all that we are and how to move into freedom from self-judgement, self-criticism and a lack of self-love. As the light of self-love and self-acceptance shines within us, so can we see it shine in another. And on and on this light grows, illuminating all that come into contact with it.


    This retreat is for you if:

    • You are looking to integrate your sexuality and spirituality and open up to a deepening awareness of who you are
    • You love the idea of getting back to nature, feeling the sun on your naked skin, wild swimming, roaming through woodland, stargazing and sharing around the fire pit  
    • You want to hang out with like-minded, warm-hearted gay and bi men and experience the joy, connection and healing that arises in community 
    • You want to enjoy and celebrate your body through movement, touch and massage 
    • You are looking to expand your awareness of what your body, mind and spirit are capable of
    • You are ready for an adventure, to take risks, grow beyond your comfort zone and discover new ways of delighting in who you are


    The venue is 1 hr 45 minutes away from Lisbon airport and 3 hrs from Porto airport so we recommend flying to Lisbon.

    We can arrange a minibus to take the group to and from Lisbon airport (about 30 euros each way)

    Healthy Food

    Vegetarian & Vegan

    The ‘made from scratch’ vegetarian and vegan food is tasty and nutritious and based on fresh, seasonal fruit and vegetables. The vegetables, fruits and herbs are either grown in their own organic garden or supplied by local greengrocers.

    The afternoon cake is of course freshly made each day, served with tea infusions, many of which they grew themselves.

    We will be nurturing our bodies in a way to complement and assist in the processes during the group activities.

    Food for thought and growth.


    All participants loved the food last year and we look forward to tasting their master pieces again.


    boutique furnished bedrooms (2 triples and the others are twins)

    All bedrooms on the 1st floor have en-suite bathrooms, with shower, washbasin and toilet. The studio apartment consists of a double bedroom, office and en-suite with bath, washbasin and toilet.

    Each room is individually styled with different colour schemes and have features such as wood panelled ceilings, wooden shutters, chandeliers and wood floors on the 1st floor.


    Only the bedroom on the ground floor is not en-suite. It has a bathroom about 8 meters away (two toilets, two basins and two showers) which can also be used by the entire group during the daytime as toilets on the ground floor.


    Single beds can be joined to create a king size bed for couples.


    Rooms will be allocated on a first come first served basis.

    Individual Financial Contribution

    varying depending on how soon you book

    Ticket £1095.00 per person


    Early Bird Ticket £950 per person


    Non-refundable Deposit of £300 to reserve your place and payment of outstanding balance by 1st April


    Optional day visit to Tomar on 24th June: https://bit.ly/2rWvrTB

    Leaving after breakfast (about €100 for transport, entry tickets to main attractions and dinner)


    or stay in the venue and go out for dinner in the local town (about €40 for transport and dinner depending on number of people)

    João Tantra

    Complementary Therapist, Tantric Teacher & Practitioner

    João's journey in complementary therapy started 15 years ago and evolved along the years expanding to the realm of Tantra.


    His background in teaching along with his training in different styles of massages, tantra, energy work, meditation and movement practice allows him to blend different techniques tailoring them to his clients' needs.


    Tantra has been a big passion in his life since Tantra practices are very diverse and allow the connection between sacred sexuality and spirituality in a path of expansion towards freedom, truth and unconditional love towards oneself and others around.


    João is based in London where he offers workshops and private appointments. Moreover, he has taught workshops in festivals.


    Andy Butterfield

    Tantric Yoga Teacher, Shiatsu & Reiki Therapist

    Andy Butterfield has practiced tantra yoga for 14 years and taught for nearly 6. He’s also an experienced bodyworker and folds shiatsu, reiki and meditation into his teaching to help his students tap into the great intelligence, power and creativity of the body. Together, we cultivate an attitude of loving kindness, gratitude and wonder as we flow through a soulful and meaningful movement practice.

    Partner work is central in his teaching of tantra yoga for gay and bi men. It allows us to experience that with assistance, support and encouragement we can all move more easily towards the goal of self knowledge and self love. Tantra teaches us how to witness the light and beauty in another and so reveal it in ourselves.

    Andy is passionate about creating community and holding a safe, relaxed and meaningful space for gay and bi men to meet and explore intimacy, connection and joy.

    He has taught many retreats and workshops around the world and is based in London and Brighton, UK.


    The yoga will be for active beginners and improvers so you will need to be relatively fit, healthy and active.

    Andy draws on his experience with hatha vinyasa yoga to instruct in a mindful, flowing practice that is both subtle and physical.


    A typical day:

    8am yoga and meditation
    9.30am breakfast
    11.00am tantric workshop
    1.30pm lunch
    FREE TIME + sound bath & optional activities
    6-7:30 pm workshop
    8pm dinner
    This schedule may change



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It is your responsibility to inform me via my booking forms, emails,  calls or text messages of any health conditions that you have that might affect others, or that might affect your ability to take part in the course, event or massage session. This information is confidential between me and yourself. Please see our Ethics section regarding safe practice.

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You are responsible for your own mental, physical, and emotional well being and safety in your choice to participate in any part of a course, event or massage. Any activity you choose to participate in is deemed as being between consenting adults. No liability can be accepted by me for your well being and safety whether that be in a course, event or massage.

You are responsible for your own safe practice throughout my courses, events or massage. This means that in agreeing to attend a course, event or massage session you are agreeing to safe practice whether that be of a sexual nature, mental, physical or emotional. i.e. not exposing yourself to health risks and not exposing yourself to situations where you feel you may be damaged or hurt on an emotional, physical and mental level. I reserve the right to withdraw any services to you at any time if I am concerned about your well being and welfare. This could mean that you are asked to leave a course or event, or a massage session cannot occur or continue because of those concerns. If this happens no refund will be offered.

If your attending a Course (both residential and non-residential) and you choose not to continue with the set programme, it is likely that you will be asked to leave the venue. Witnessing (watching) and being in the group space even though you may choose not to participate in the specific exercise is counted as being part of the programme. It is likely to have a detrimental impact to the group process if you are making a choice not to continue with the programme but wish to stay on the premises.   

I reserve the right to withdraw any services of a course, event or massage session at any time without the need to provide any explanation. However my aim is to be fair to you at all times in our dealings. If for example a massage session was withdrawn we would refund you the full amount of that massage session.

Once you have made a massage appointment through any means (calls, text messages or emails for example) no liability or claim can be accepted by me for the delivery or quality of that experience. Complaints should be addressed to me for resolution. I cannot accept any liability or claim for the service that you received.

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I am committed to the highest ethical practice. In signing up to the Terms and Conditions, you are also agreeing to those as laid out in this section.

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I cannot offer any liability to you for any part of the services I offer. It is your duty to ensure your own personal safety. No liability or responsibility can be taken by me for you. You will need to ensure you are mentally, physically and emotionally able to engage in the treatments, events, workshops or retreats. If you have any concerns you are responsible for your own duty of care to yourself and as such should seek appropriate advice before undertaking any course.

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We will not tolerate any form of aggressive or inappropriate behaviour towards us, venue staff or other group members. Any such behaviour will be addressed and if not rectified immediately could result in you being asked to leave a course, event or a massage session. Where you have been requested to leave a course no refund will be given.
This privacy policy / privacy notice sets out how I, J de Oliveira, use and protect any personal information that you give me through my private treatments, events, programmes and products.

Your information will be used for the sole purpose of your request or order and in accordance with this privacy statement and the guidelines set by the Information Commissioner’s Office, which is our lead data protection supervisory authority (link here: https://ico.org.uk).
I may change this policy from time to time by updating this page. You should therefore check this page from time to time to ensure that you are happy with any changes.
As a private Therapist, I’m considered the data processor and controller in my practice. As the data controller, I process some of your personal data. During the assessment process information such as next of kin, family members and medication are gathered and held. No one but me can access this information.

Data Processing means  obtaining, recording or holding information. The definition is very wide, and most of what I do involves a degree of processing. I  process the personal data I have collected as controller. I maintain records of personal data and processing activities and hold responsibility should there be a breach.

What I collect
I may collect the following information:
* Full name
* Contact information including email address, postal address, and telephone / mobile numbers
* Date of birth
* Financial information in relation event bookings and other products
* Personal and health information in relation to previous experiences with spiritual modalities, and related to health information essential for your safety during your treatment, my events and workshops (such as injuries and food intolerances).
* Market research information and testimonials to improve my services.
What I do with the information we gather
I use this information to provide your treatments, deliver my events, workshops and retreats, to understand your needs and limitations, to provide you with the best service I can and to assist you in order to improve the event you have booked onto
* to send occasional surveys and other feedback opportunities to help me to improve my  treatments, events and workshops
* to send you marketing messages for my own treatments and events

I may also use the information you give me, in an anonymised way, to review, improve, and promote the effectiveness of my performance to your physical and mental health  as well as making your personal progress in the Tantra-related modalities that I offer, and to monitor the effectiveness of my treatments, events and workshops.  Specifically, I will use the information you give me:
* for secure internal record keeping
* to send you information on the treatments, events and workshops.
Note keeping.I do not keep process notes. I kexep minimal content notes which I hold for seven years. After this time frame, they're disposed of securely. You have a right to see the information I hold about you should you wish to. You have a right to change any information which you consider to be incorrect. You can also ask me to delete all/any of the information that I hold. There are however some details I need to keep due to legal and professional obligations.

I will NEVER do the following with your information 
I take your privacy very seriously and will protect client confidentiality at all times. I will never divulge, or sell on, your personal information to third parties unless I am required by law to do so.
Retention periods and disposal of records
I will keep your information in line with guidance on records retention periods, and for no longer than it is needed. I will dispose of paper records or delete any electronic personal information in a secure way.
Financial information: Any financial information will only be used for immediate processing of your payments and erased immediately afterwards.
I do not store your payment details. I am committed to ensuring that your information is secure and anonymised where appropriate. 

Law Enforcement: If I receive a lawful court order to release account or other personal information then I will comply with the law. I will also release information when necessary to protect the life, safety or property of others.

It is important for you to protect against unauthorized access to your password and to your computer. Be sure to sign off when finished using a shared computer.

This is a primary concern and is separate to other terms and conditions. As my client, you can withdraw consent at any time. I hope to offer you choice and control. I will never use any of your data for writing, publishing, research or training purposes without your consent.

When you book with me, I will always ask for your consent to use the data you provide as part of my treatments, events, workshops and programmes. You have the right to access your data as detailed in the next paragraph at any time. You have the right to update or withdraw your consent at any time by contacting me at tantricjourney4men@gmail.co.uk.
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You have the right to control your personal data held by me in the following ways, at any time:
1. Your right to know what personal data I hold about you: You can ask me what information I hold about you, and I will respond to your request as soon as possible, but within one month maximum.
2. Your right to rectification if you believe any of your personal data are incorrect.
3. Your right to erasure of your personal data: You can ask me to delete all personal data I have stored about you, and I will erase all these within one month maximum. This excludes information that I need to keep for legal reasons (such as tax).
4. Your right to obtain a digital copy of your personal data: Upon request, I will send you a digital copy of all personal data I hold about you, within one month maximum.

Please contact me on if you would like to exercise any of these rights.
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